My husband and I have a collective bucket list for travel destinations and Big Sur has long been at the top of that list. In celebration of our second wedding anniversary this past November, we decided to finally check it off our list and experience it for ourselves- in retrospect, a very good decision.
We based our stay at Post Ranch Inn, a property synonymous with architectural integrity, world class hospitality, and one of the most dramatic settings on the West Coast. Below is my curated guide to Big Sur with a focus on all of the highlights from our trip, including what to do, see and where to dine. I hope you enjoy reading this as much as I enjoyed putting it together and recollecting all of the wonderful memories made in this special place.
A Brief History of Big Sur
Located along California’s central coast, Big Sur spans approximately 90 miles between Carmel and San Simeon. The region is defined by its rugged topography- steep cliffs, redwood groves, and uninterrupted views of the Pacific Ocean. Historically inhabited by the Esselen people, Big Sur later became a retreat for artists, architects, and writers seeking isolation and inspiration.
Strict land-use regulations have preserved its natural integrity, limiting overdevelopment and ensuring that the landscape remains the primary focus. The result is a destination where architecture and hospitality are designed to complement, not compete with, the environment.
The Drive: Pacific Coast Highway
At the time of our visit, portions of Highway 1 were still closed, so we approached Big Sur by driving from Los Angeles to Carmel and traveling south. With the highway now fully reopened, the drive is once again uninterrupted and remains one of the most compelling coastal routes in the country.
Key points of interest along the way include:
- Bixby Creek Bridge – an engineering landmark and one of the most photographed sites on the coast
- Garrapata Bluff Pullouts – expansive ocean views with minimal crowds
- Point Sur Lighthouse – a historic structure perched above the coastline
- Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park (McWay Falls) – a rare waterfall that meets the beach
This stretch of road is as much a part of the Big Sur experience as the destination itself.
Where to Stay: Post Ranch Inn
Post Ranch Inn is widely regarded as one of the finest hotels in the world, and for good reason. Designed by architect Mickey Muennig, the property exemplifies organic architecture—structures built into the landscape with an emphasis on natural materials, clean lines, and unobstructed views.
The adults-only resort offers an intentionally quiet experience: no televisions, limited cell service, and an all-inclusive model that prioritizes privacy, wellness, and service. Infinity pools appear to float above the ocean, and guest accommodations are positioned to maximize light, privacy, and connection to nature.
Post Ranch Inn has consistently received top honors from Condé Nast Traveler and Travel + Leisure, and the experience fully lives up to its reputation.
To make reservations, visit postranchinn.com.
What to Do in Big Sur
Big Sur allows for flexibility—days can be structured or entirely unplanned.
- Thermal soaking in the property’s hot springs
- Time at the infinity pools, particularly in the early morning or at sunset
- Hiking and coastal walks, even short trails offer significant payoff
- Exploring nearby state parks and scenic overlooks
- Participating in seasonal programming offered by the resort
One of the most appealing aspects of our visit was the relaxed and intentional pace… Big Sur encourages a slower, more deliberate way of moving through the day and we enjoyed being present in nature and with each other.
Dining: Where We Ate
Despite its remote location, Big Sur offers a thoughtful dining landscape rooted in local ingredients and understated execution.
Sierra Mar (Post Ranch Inn)
Breakfast is served daily with panoramic ocean views. The buffet emphasizes seasonal produce, house-made pastries, and well-executed classics. It’s refined without being fussy. We also had dinner here on our first night, and it did not disappoint.
Nepenthe
An iconic Big Sur establishment with mid-century roots and sweeping views. Casual and unfussy, it remains a worthwhile stop for lunch.
The Sur House at Ventana Big Sur
Set among redwoods, The Sur House offers elevated comfort food in a relaxed, design-forward setting.
Deetjen’s Big Sur Inn
An intimate, candlelit dining room known for its old-world charm. Cozy, romantic, and best experienced with a reservation.
Big Sur Bakery
A reliable stop for brunch or pastries before heading out of town—rustic, well-executed, and consistent.
Final Notes
Big Sur can be experienced as an active outdoor destination or as a place for rest and relaxation- we did a little bit of both and it was a perfect balance.
With the Pacific Coast Highway fully reopened, access has never been easier. For those drawn to thoughtful design, strong sense of place and understated luxury, Big Sur remains one of California’s most compelling destinations for good reason, and I’m already dreaming of another visit to this magical place.
Happy Traveling!
Tara
